Be selfish

In a world that constantly emphasizes the importance of helping others, it's easy to forget the most important person in our lives: ourselves. Of course, supporting others, showing kindness, and giving back are vital elements of a fulfilling life. However, sometimes, it's crucial to be a little selfish—because at the end of the day, we only have one life to live, and it's ours to shape.

Being selfish doesn't mean disregarding others or acting with arrogance. It simply means prioritizing your own needs, desires, and happiness. It's about taking the time to nurture yourself, to follow your passions, and to make decisions that align with your heart, even when the world around you might suggest otherwise.

I've experienced this personally. A few years ago, I was caught up in the expectations of others—trying to meet the demands of family, work, and friends, often at the expense of my own happiness. I was constantly giving and helping, but I felt drained and unfulfilled. It wasn't until I decided to put myself first, to take time for my own needs, that I truly began to feel alive again. I took up hobbies I had abandoned, travelled solo, and allowed myself the space to rest. By being "selfish," I learned to listen to my heart and live authentically.

Sometimes, the world can make us feel guilty for choosing ourselves. But in reality, being selfish is not only healthy for us—it's necessary. Only when we are genuinely fulfilled and at peace with ourselves can we be the best versions of ourselves for others.

So, next time you're torn between what others want and what you need, remember: your happiness matters too. Don't be afraid to be selfish. Life is too short to ignore your own desires. Follow your heart, live for you, and you'll find that helping others becomes even more meaningful when you're truly living your best life.

Put yourself first, and everything else will follow.